My Baby has the Best Daddy

Seriously. I know that statement goes in the category of “my baby is the cutest ever”. But this guy is amazing. He’s been a rock for the last week while Molly & I have been sick (me for a week and a half now, Molly just 3 days). Even when it was just me sick, he was great, really pushing me to take care of myself and taking over Molly duties whenever possible, even cutting short a visit with a friend when it was clear (to him, not me) that I needed help.

And then when Molly got sick he just shone. Not that it’s ever nice to see your baby sick, but probably one of the most touching moments was when Molly was first sick and we didn’t really know what was going on. We just knew she was unhappy. I tried nursing her (my ol’ standby when I don’t know what else to do) but as soon as she saw Zach she just reached her arms out and practically jumped out of my lap to get into his arms. And he picked her up and she laid her head down on his shoulder and went to sleep.

She just wanted her daddy.

It was so wonderful to see that they have such a close relationship. And such a relief to me that he could provide her with such comfort, just by his presence. I remember back when I was going to the mom’s group one of the moms commented that she thinks dads and non-nursing moms tend to develop a larger repertoire of comfort measures for their babies because they don’t have the nursing to rely on. I think she’s right. Not that it’s better or worse. We each bring something different to parenting.

And it’s wonderful to have such a solid partner in parenting on nights like we’ve had recently. We’ve been able to survive by taking five hour shifts. It’s getting easier. The first night she had to be held practically all night long. Last night she slept in her crib almost all night. But because we’re worried this is croup we’re keeping a close eye on her and taking turns sleeping in her room.

All this is to say: I couldn’t have imagined a better partner and father. Thank you Zach!

And to everyone else, I hope you’re enjoying the holidays. Wishing you all a Happy Christmas, Merry Hanukkah, and Joyous New Year.